In ancient times the EMPOWERED WOMAN was allowed to choose her mate

This was called: SWYAM-VAR (Choosing a husband for oneself)

Nowadays EMPOWERED FAMILIES choose the mate for her and force her into marriage.

It is called arranged marriage but should be called SWYAM-DAMAAD (Choosing a Son in Law for oneself)

God Bless,

G. Vijay Kumar




  1. I support love marriage only if the love is selfless and true no other marriage I find worthy may it be love marriage without selflessness or arranged most of which are based on gains and benefits

      1. Thanks for the reply, Inam on my ketu mahadasa, jupiter antardasha. My ketu is on 4th house of aquarius, please suggest what are the possibilities

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