In ancient times the EMPOWERED WOMAN was allowed to choose her mate

This was called: SWYAM-VAR (Choosing a husband for oneself)

Nowadays EMPOWERED FAMILIES choose the mate for her and force her into marriage.

It is called arranged marriage but should be called SWYAM-DAMAAD (Choosing a Son in Law for oneself)

God Bless,

G. Vijay Kumar

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